Every life is unique, and so too should be the farewell that honours it. A funeral service doesn’t need to follow a set formula…it can be shaped to reflect the personality, values, and story of the person you love.
At Tommy Jarman Funeral Service, we believe in creating meaningful farewells that feel true to the individual. Personalising a funeral service not only celebrates a life well lived but also brings comfort to family and friends. Here are some thoughtful ways to create a unique and personal goodbye.
While a chapel or crematorium may feel traditional, families often find comfort in holding the service somewhere that was special to their loved one. This could be a garden, a family home, a community hall, or even outdoors in a place they loved to walk. The right setting can bring a sense of peace and connection.
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Music has a powerful way of evoking memories and emotions. Whether it’s a favourite hymn, a beloved classical piece, or even a much-loved pop song, choosing music that reflects your loved one’s spirit makes the service deeply personal. Live music can also create a moving, intimate moment for everyone present.
Readings can be traditional, spiritual, or completely personal. A favourite poem, a passage from a book, or even a handwritten letter from a family member can be a moving way to share what words cannot always express.
Small details often carry the deepest meaning. Some families light candles, release doves, or choose flowers with special significance. Others create a memory table with treasured items, photographs, or mementos that capture the essence of the life being remembered.
Consider ways to involve friends and family directly. This could include sharing stories during the service, contributing to a memory board, or creating a slideshow of cherished photos and videos. These tributes allow everyone present to feel connected and part of the farewell.
A gathering afterwards is another opportunity to honour your loved one in a meaningful way. This might mean serving their favourite foods, playing their favourite music, or even organising an activity that celebrates their passions.
Personalising a funeral service doesn’t need to be elaborate: it’s about weaving in the details that mattered most to your loved one. These touches not only honour their memory but also offer comfort to those left behind, reminding us that love and connection live on in many forms.
At Tommy Jarman Funeral Service, we’re here to guide you with warmth and understanding. If you’d like support in creating a funeral service that truly reflects the life of someone special, please contact our caring team today.
We know how it feels to lose a loved one, to feel lost and confused.
That is why our dedicated team will treat you and your loved one with dignity and care.
Our compassionate team will gently lead you through all the steps necessary to honour your lost loved one and provide honest expert advice in your time of need.
