Losing someone you love is one of life’s most difficult experiences. During this time, many families find themselves facing an important question: what type of funeral feels right for honoring their loved one?
Today, funerals are not one-size-fits-all. Families have more choices than ever before, allowing them to create services that reflect personal beliefs, cultural traditions, and the life of the person being remembered.
At Tommy Jarman Funeral Services, we believe every farewell should be meaningful and personal. Understanding the different types of funerals can help you make a choice that brings comfort and feels right for your family.
A traditional funeral service is the format many people are most familiar with. It often includes a viewing or visitation, a formal ceremony, and a burial at a cemetery.
Typical elements include:
· A viewing or wake where friends and family gather
· A religious or spiritual ceremony
· Readings, prayers, or music
· A graveside service and burial
Traditional funerals can provide structure during a difficult time. The rituals and gathering of loved ones often offer a sense of closure and support for those who are grieving.
For families with strong religious or cultural traditions, a traditional funeral can feel especially meaningful.
A memorial service is similar to a funeral but usually takes place after the burial or cremation. The loved one’s body is not present at the service.
Memorial services are often:
· More flexible in timing
· Less formal
· Focused on celebrating the person’s life
Families may include:
· Personal stories and tributes
· Photo or video displays
· Favorite music of the loved one
This type of service allows families more time to plan and gather loved ones who may be traveling from far away.
Cremation has become increasingly common, and it can be combined with several types of ceremonies.
Families choosing cremation may hold:
· A traditional funeral before cremation
· A memorial service after cremation
· A private family gathering
Cremation also allows flexibility for families who may wish to:
· Scatter ashes in a meaningful place
· Keep ashes in an urn
· Create memorial keepsakes
The focus remains on honoring the life of the person, while giving families flexibility in how and when they gather.
A celebration of life focuses on remembering the joy, personality, and accomplishments of the person who has passed.
These services are often:
· Less formal than traditional funerals
· Uplifting and story-focused
· Personalized around the person’s passions and memories
Families might include:
· Favorite music or songs
· Memory-sharing from family and friends
· Displays of photographs or personal items
For many families, a celebration of life feels like a meaningful way to remember the individuality of their loved one.
A graveside service is a shorter ceremony that takes place directly at the cemetery.
These services are typically:
· Smaller and more intimate
· Focused on close family and friends
· Conducted by a clergy member or celebrant
Graveside services can be held on their own or as part of a traditional funeral.
Another important consideration is whether the service will be religious or non-religious.
Religious funerals may include:
· Clergy-led prayers
· Scripture readings
· Traditional rituals
Non-religious services may focus more on:
· Personal tributes
· Stories and memories
· Music and symbolic elements
At Tommy Jarman Funeral Services, we support families of all faiths and beliefs, helping create services that truly reflect the person being remembered.
There is no “right” or “wrong” way to say goodbye. The most important thing is choosing a service that feels meaningful to you and honors the life of your loved one.
When deciding, families often consider:
· Cultural or religious traditions
· The wishes of the loved one
· Family preferences
· Budget and practical considerations
A thoughtful service can bring comfort, connection, and a chance to reflect on the life that was lived.
Planning a funeral can feel overwhelming, especially during a time of grief. Having caring guidance can make all the difference.
At Tommy Jarman Funeral Services, we walk alongside families with compassion, helping you create a farewell that truly honors your loved one.
If you would like support in planning a service or learning more about your options, our team is here to help.
With care
The Tommy Jarman Team
We know how it feels to lose a loved one, to feel lost and confused.
That is why our dedicated team will treat you and your loved one with dignity and care.
Our compassionate team will gently lead you through all the steps necessary to honour your lost loved one and provide honest expert advice in your time of need.
